No one likes to be contacted by someone they don’t want to hear from, and we feel that. On Wink, users can set preferences like age, gender, and location. This feature works both ways. Do you only want to see men ages 18-22 in your country? That’s who you’ll see, and ONLY those users will see you. Additionally, no one gets your username automatically. If someone sends you a request and you’re not interested, just pass - no hard feelings.